The Struggle Does Not Need to be Real

What do I need to do in order to get a  job so my family & I can stop struggling?
(Am I really cursed or hexed?) ~Erica
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Erica,

Without knowing more about your situation, it’s a bit harder to advise you on this. However, one thing that I believe is that you are capable of creating the life you desire regardless of your “conditions.” But, in order to do this, you must first know this to be true too.

The 3D questions that I would ask are:

• “What actions have you taken towards finding employment?
• “Are you looking at jobs that you are qualified for?
• “If you are looking for jobs that you are not fully qualified for, are you taking the steps needed to get training? Taking classes or courses?”
• “Have you updated your resume? Your LinkedIn profile, etc?”

The 5D questions that I would ask are:

• “What mindset work have you done around figuring out what might be keeping you from finding your desired employment?”
• “Does your energy match that of someone who is grateful for all they have, or are you focused and stuck on what you don’t have?”
• “Are you being clear on what you want then taking aligned actions to get it?”

Because there are so many questions here, I pulled a few cards from my Dreams of Gaia deck because they’re good at going deep:

The Scribe represents receiving knowledge from an unbiased source. You asked if you are cursed or hexed. I would recommend working with someone who can either help you explore your past lives or your Akashic Records to see if there are karmic agreements that need to be resolved. Energy healing, like Reiki can also help move any stale energy that might be creating resistance to you evolving to the next level in your life. Silfren Circle also has a phenomenal group of Witches who can work with you to remove any curses that might exist.

However, the Eight of Air suggest a need for you to look at your beliefs and behaviors, and question them. Basically, it’s time to take responsibility for your thoughts, actions and the consequences they create.

Do you know that you are a co-creator of your life? Do you know that when you think negative things or think poorly of yourself, the Universe will create situations to support your negativity? Like attracts like… that’s why practicing gratitude, even when shit gets rough, will bring more positive things to you. I know it’s a harsh realization to learn that we directly cause so much of our suffering, but it’s just as empowering to acknowledge this as well! This means you have the power, right now, to create changes in your life!

The Nine of Earth says by helping others, you are helping yourself - however, I’m going to suggest that for you this means that you need to give to yourself, not just others! Be kind to yourself with your thoughts. Take time out to care for yourself. You mentioned having a family and I know firsthand that the one that is last to be cared for is, Self.

I also feel called to say that if you need to heal from something, take the time to do so. You will not be able to find a satisfying job or properly care for you and your family if your mind is not healthy. And by a healthy mind, I mean you are thinking positive thoughts, there are no doubts that you will receive all that you desire, and your thoughts are not stuck on past situations that need to be let go of! Likewise, your thoughts are not in the future, creating anxiety!

I’m going to recommend the book, “A Happy Pocket Full of Money,” by David Cameron Gikandi which will completely change your understanding around how you bring anything into this reality! It’s life-changing! The audiobook is also on YouTube if you want experience it that way.

So my takeaways for you, Erica are:

• Seek guidance in exploring your Soul’s past - then do what is needed to clear it
• Mindset work - it’s so important! Positive thoughts about yourself and your situation. Stay present! You will notice shifts towards more positive outcomes in your life. Read the suggested book above!
• Be kind to yourself! Practice self-love. Discover what you need to heal and do it!​

If it’s what you desire, you will change your life.  

If you’d like to work together further, or need suggestions of other practitioners that might be of service to you, please feel free to email me at conversationswithtoni@gmail.com.
-Toni Moné of Silfren Circle